Equal marriage

Free to publicly bless same-sex couples in church

In two lengthy papers, Peter Collier KC, retired Senior Circuit Judge and former Vicar-General of the Province of York and Fr Charlie Baczyk-Bell outline where the House of Bishops have arrived, both concluding that clergy are free to use the PLF resources in church in services with same-sex couples.

In Where Does the House of Bishops Currently Stand on the Use of Prayers of Love and Faith? Some Reflections for ViaMedia News. Peter Collier says:

  • “It is clearly in order for any cleric who wishes to do so, to use the commended PLF resources in any regularly scheduled service.”

  • ”It would be open to any priest relying on Canon B 5.2 to use a form of service considered suitable by them to provide a service of thanksgiving and prayer for a couple who approached them.”

  • ”Clergy can continue to exercise their pastoral responsibilities under the B canons – and that to do so is not only acceptable, but right.”

  • “It seems to me that the threat of litigation is vastly overstated in the papers that have been produced so far.”

In B2 or not B2: that isn’t the question Or: navigating the waves in the wake of the sinking of LLF, Charlie Baczyk-Bell concludes:

  • “Clergy need to take back the initiative, and act under the provisions of Canon B5.”

  • “Clergy can continue to exercise their pastoral responsibilities under the B canons – and to do so is not only acceptable, but right.”

Both authors agree that clergy are perfectly within their rights to continue blessing the relationships of lesbian and gay couples in church in stand-alone services or in the context of other services. There is pretty much zero chance of legal action being possible against such priests. So we can carry on doing what many priests have been doing for decades. We have the assurance as a result of thoughtful analysis of what the House of Bishops and the FAOC have done that no action can be taken against us.

This is a significant advance towards the radically new full inclusion of LGBTQIA+ people first promised in 2017. That’s the positive news. The bad news is that there is no progress at all towards achieving equality in ministry and relationships for lesbian and gay clergy in general, let alone for those in committed relationships who wish to marry. Nor is there progress towards equalising the Marriage Canons to allow equal marriages to be solemnised in the Church of England. I know other denominations are available but as an Anglican, it is vital for me that anyone who wishes to marry in their parish church, straight, gay or lesbian, can legally do so.

What God do we believe in?

I return to the thoughts and questions that haunt me. What kind of God do we members of the Church of England corporately believe in? Do we really believe (as some clearly do) in a God who is tribal, prejudiced, judgmental of our gender or sexuality, authoritarian?

After the decades of reports and process and the years of Living in Love and Faith, the Church of England, controlled by the House of Bishops, still believes in a God who is unable to recognise and celebrate and pour out blessings on the love lesbian and gay individuals and couples can experience every day of our lives.

I wonder what kind of world, of planet, of universe, of cosmos, and of human civilisation does the Church of England believe in – are we yet aware of the seamless love of God the Father incarnated in the life of Jesus of Nazareth, Jesus the Christ – who lived and died and rose again for the life of One World, One Humanity, living on a fragile planet, anxious and insecure, mutually responsible and interdependent?

An era is coming to an end and a new era is slowly beginning to evolve. The era coming to an end is the era of prejudice and discrimination sanctioned by societies and cultures, legal and religious systems, against the minority of people who are now corporately gathered under the LGBTQIA+ acronym, and in particular, against those men and women who feel deep love and tenderness and desire for people of the same gender.

Another era is coming to an end, the era in which sacred texts have been used to justify discrimination against LGBTQIA+ people, against women, against people of different colours and cultures and religions. The addiction of some Christians to the God of dogma and doctrine and dividing lines is the reason why the Church of England is having such great difficulty moving at the same pace as the rest of English society out of the sexuality and gender era.

LGBTQIA+ people have been granted legal rights (not yet sufficiently established for Trans people) and with the legal protections comes justification for challenging discrimination and prejudice in other areas of society such as the Church of England. Humans have prejudices and discriminate selectively. God doesn’t. Gay and lesbian people have been arguing and campaigning for the freedom to live with the same protections, rights and values as heterosexuals for the whole of my life on earth. Many of us on this fragile planet live in the here and now, embodying the rights that have been hard won by prophetic campaigners.

The Church Revitalisation Trust is bankrolling HTB-identified conservative anti-LGBTQIA+ equality church takeovers and plants. I’ve written about specific examples in recent blogs. The HTB/CRT leadership knows their homophobic teaching is unpopular with their target audience. They maintain radio silence, refusing to speak their truth openly.

How do we, advocates for Christian justice and equality, motivate the majority of members of the Church of England who have already stepped into the new era of sexual and gender equality? How do we make their and our voices heard? The majority of bishops know the game is up. They know the inevitable outcome of the process started in the 1950s when members of the Church of England first started taking tentatively about homosexuality will result in equal marriage in church for gay and lesbian couples. What they don’t yet know is how to justify this change spiritually and theologically and they can’t yet find the courage to commit themselves to equality and justice for all in the kingdom of God where life in all its fullness will flourish.

It’s time to go to work

I’m reposting the conclusion printed at the end of my last blog - It’s time to organise ourselves, challenging status quo narrative, forming communities of resistance, offering counter-cultural models in the Church, develop our moral courage, standing up visibly and audibly, being active agents in pursuing the full equality of LGBTQIA+ people in the Kingdom of God.

You are part of the solution

You, reading this blog, have a voice and a conviction. You can do things to create the change we envision. Engage with your local clergy, congregation, friends, PCC, Churchwardens and allies. Ask them to join you in committing your local church to as fully inclusive agenda as is possible, including the public blessing of same-sex relationships, CPs and marriages.

Encourage the other progressive organisations, Together, Inclusive Church, Equal, Open Table, Network to find the courage to work for transformation by challenging the failure of the House of Bishops to commit to a radical new Christian inclusion for LGBTQIA+ people. Affirm lesbian and gay clergy in their relationships, in a civil partnership, and those dreaming of marriage.

Take courage yourselves from the courage shown by the Deans of Canterbury, Southwark and Salisbury in writing and preaching about the transformative vision we share and the isolation and abuse we endure.

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You are part of the greatest resource in the Church of England – people with vision and a passion for the Gospel proclaiming the inclusive good news of life in all its fulness.

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The divine relationship; an audacious transformation

The divine relationship; an audacious transformation

At the moment I am very aware of how books have changed me and my relationship with myself, my sexuality, the Church of England, Christianity, and God, half-way though Diarmaid MacCulloch’s recently published Lower than the Angels; A History of Sex and Christianity. It was the phrase “the divine relationship, an audacious transformation” that unlocked the door to an idea I’ve been struggling to develop for several weeks.

Which God?

Which God?

There is something very unpleasant going on in the Church of England and the Anglican Communion since 1998 that leaves me feeling increasingly conflicted and abused emotionally and spiritually – assaulted by dogma and doctrine and a cruel, ruthless God. This is where the rich, creative, inspiring Christian heritage of my first five decades has brought me; deep disagreement about my sexuality, my priesthood, my membership of the Church of England, my theology and my spiritual vision. It has become more and more difficult to live with this - and it gets worse.

Where have we arrived after General Synod?

Where have we arrived after General Synod?

We live in a culture where prejudice, fundamentalism, abuse, and discrimination, although still prevalent, are less and less acceptable or tolerated as healthy attitudes towards other members of the human race. It becomes more and more difficult for people to maintain their commitment to and involvement with an institution, a Church, that continues to be so ambivalent about justice and equality for every member of the human race, a Church that is still so hostile to me and people like me, to my LGBTQIA+ brothers and sisters, people with integrity and faith and a deep spirituality regardless of their gender or sexuality or who they sleep with and make love to.

Are we heading for decisive Anglican indecision?

Are we heading for decisive Anglican indecision?

Can the hierarchy of the Church of England take us deep into the black hole, with courage deep enough to lead us into the unimaginable white hole through and beyond into an experience and reality named resurrection? I wish Synod would bring coherence and finality to a process that began with a profound vision, a radical new Christian inclusion, and with a trust that bringing people together would gradually transform and melt differences in the context of Christian love and prayer.

Church of England announces Living in Love and Faith proposals

Church of England announces Living in Love and Faith proposals

Most bishops will be aware that same-sex couples are already sometimes offered services of blessing by parish clergy in their local church, although these are not yet authorised. We believe that God’s blessing on same-sex civil marriages and civil partnerships is always bestowed on our loving relationships. In failing to approve equal marriage in the Church of England the Bishops continue to deny that God blesses the loving, faithful relationships of all LGBTQIA+ people.

Living in Love and Faith - pure chance, serendipity, or the work of God’s Spirit?

Living in Love and Faith - pure chance, serendipity, or the work of God’s Spirit?

In the course of the Living in Love and Faith process Changing Attitude England has repeatedly told bishops that we want no more conversations about us without us. On Friday we were present with bishops, we spoke, we were heard, we have been included in the conversation. Three years ago we would never have anticipated that last Friday’s meetings would have taken place. The process won’t be finished by the February meeting of General Synod. We can hope at least for a confirmed direction of travel after Synod, knowing that proposals will take time to implement. We hope and pray that the College of Bishops and General Synod have the confidence to come to a strong common mind leading to the full inclusion of LGBTQIA+ people in the Church of England characterised by a radical new Christian inclusion that is both possible and essential.

Poll shows CofE majority support equal marriage for LGBTQIA+ people

Poll shows CofE majority support equal marriage for LGBTQIA+ people

A YouGov poll, commissioned by the Ozanne Foundation shows that a majority of members of the Church of England now support equal marriage for lesbian and gay couples despite the Church of England’s refusal to allow equal marriage or blessings in church. Changing Attitude England has been campaigning for the full equality of LGBTQIA+ people in the Church of England since 1995. The findings of the YouGov poll brings greater urgency to the need for equal marriage and ministry in the Church of England after more than four decades of exploration and study.

Sorting out the disagreements about homosexuality

Sorting out the disagreements about homosexuality

In an article in the current issue of the Spectator Theo Hobson thinks this might be the year in which the Church of England sorts out its deep divisions over homosexuality. He wants to assert the centrality of liberal Anglo-Catholicism in the Church and this means treating evangelicalism with a bit less respect. Diversity must be allowed: liberal parishes must be free to conduct gay weddings, evangelical parishes must be allowed to refuse to. I disagree. The pragmatic arrangements made to tolerate dissent on the ordination of women have enshrined an utterly unchristian intolerance and prejudice in the life of the Church.

Finding the voice of LGBTIQ+ people and allies in the LLF conversations

Finding the voice of LGBTIQ+ people and allies in the LLF conversations

People are reporting on Facebook groups that their parish has already held a meeting or series of meetings to engage with the Living in Love and Faith course material. Many more report that parishes will be holding meetings to work through the course in the Autumn. It will be all too easy for us to engage with the material without raising a basic question. The LLF process and the material which has been published assume an equal validity between those who argue for a transformation of teaching and practice leading to full equality for LGBTIQ+ people and those who argue from the Bible and the clobber texts against equal marriage and sexual intimacy for clergy. I propose that we find the courage to challenge the material at a basic level.